Family Conflict and Issues

Things aren’t supposed to be this way.

Families are supposed to be happy.

Parents are supposed to be admired and obeyed.

Spouses are supposed to be loving and supportive.

Kids are supposed to be bright-eyed and funny.

That’s what you thought.

What a mess!

This isn’t the plan you had for your family.

There are conflicts, hurt feelings, and dismissed emotions…

Needs and wants that go neglected or misunderstood…

There’s jealousy, aggression, betrayal, and abandonment…

Sometimes, it seems no one gets along with anyone!

We were lied to.

No one’s family is as perfect as what you see on TV sitcoms or in the movies.

Families don’t always get along or easily reconcile after disagreements. Not everyone goes to bed happy and grateful each night. These fictional ideals are unrealistic.

On top of that, we tend to think things in the past were better than they were. We often romanticize or idealize our childhood, our kids when they were young, or our marriage when it was new.

But here’s the reality: If you have problems now, they were there then… just waiting to happen.

But there’s good news.

Every family has its own dynamics. Pain, disappointment, and frustration are common.

Fortunately, there are practical methods for sorting these things out – for every family.

Maybe you’re an adult whose parents keep meddling in your life…

Or your ideas about how things should be are getting in the way of your happiness…

Perhaps your kids seem reactive, recalcitrant, or reclusive…

Whatever’s going on, we can find a way through it.

Here’s what we’ll do…

I’ll first work with you individually. I want to talk to you… and I want you to tell me about everything.

We’ll identify the root causes of what’s going on in your family and examine how the conflict and issues you face today may be related to experiences in your family when you were a child.

Simply understanding your family’s dynamics and origins can make a big difference.

Meeting with your family is often unnecessary, but we will make a plan if you decide it would be helpful.

I’m here to help.

Learning to navigate change, strong emotions, and getting older will give you, your family, and your children a newfound confidence.

I know things are hard right now…

But this is also an opportunity for connection and growth.

You’re doing the right thing here. Call today, and we’ll talk more during your free consultation: (610) 933-2127.